What The...?

Feeling quite a bit irritated now. Ugh.

I am starting to wonder if I'm a magnet for trouble and dramas or something. Why is it that even when I do things out of sincerity and without a motive, that would cause misunderstandings etc?

Somehow a friend that I've known for a long time, but isn't very close to, had grown a disliking for me because I messaged her boy on Facebook. I'm not sure if she failed to realise that I messaged him to double check if he has added the wrong person. I never failed to mention her name in the messages often, just to make sure he doesn't get the wrong idea. He came around to asking me stuff, and since I was bored and taking a break from revising, I just shared a little bit.

Suddenly, I indirectly get told off by her. She might have been polite, but I could surely sense some sarcasm tone coming from her about appreciating me not messaging her bf. Maybe it was my fault to reply his messages, but when I first messaged him to clarify that he might have mistaken me for someone else, I definitely did not expect a reply. And hello, I would think I mentioned her name in 3/4 of the messages to 'send the message across not to misunderstand'.

If I had the intention to flirt with him, would I be that silly to do that? When I sent those messages, I already half-expected she might read them and to me, I still feel there was nothing to hide?

PLUS, he isn't even my kind to begin with?? And most important of all, I wouldn't mess with my friends' boys. Even if I didn't care what she thought about me, I would care about putting our mutual friend in such a rough spot. And I do hope her current MSN nick is not for me, because she poked her nose into people lives when its not even her *i quote* "FUCKING business". It doesn't matter that it was out of friendship or love for her closed ones, she's still definitely not practising what she preach.

I guess I can only console myself that life isn't life without regular drama every now and then. :/